Toward understanding understanding: The importance of feeling understood in relationships

HT Reis, EP Lemay Jr… - Social and Personality …, 2017 - Wiley Online Library
People want to be understood by others, yet their perceptions of being understood are only
modestly related to actually being understood by others. In this article, we provide an …

Self and identity.

WB Swann Jr, JK Bosson - 2010 - psycnet.apa.org
This chapter began with a brief history of the self, noting that in recent decades social
psychology has at long last embraced some seminal conceptions of the self offered by …

Toward a psychology of well-being for language learners: The “EMPATHICS” vision

RL Oxford - Positive psychology in SLA, 2016 - degruyter.com
The 'EMPATHICS'vision in this chapter heralds the arrival of positive psychology to the
language learning arena (see also MacIntyre & Mercer, 2014) and moves us toward a …

Self-verification theory

WB Swann Jr - Handbook of theories of social psychology, ed. P. Van …, 2012 - torrossa.com
Self-verification theory proposes that people prefer others to see them as they see
themselves, even if their self-views happen to be negative. For example, those who see …

[ΒΙΒΛΙΟ][B] Stumbling on happiness

D Gilbert - 2009 - books.google.com
A smart and funny book by a prominent Harvard psychologist, which uses groundbreaking
research and (often hilarious) anecdotes to show us why we're so lousy at predicting what …

Motivational and emotional aspects of the self

MR Leary - Annu. Rev. Psychol., 2007 - annualreviews.org
Recent theory and research are reviewed regarding self-related motives (self-enhancement,
self-verification, and self-expansion) and self-conscious emotions (guilt, shame, pride, social …

Do people's self-views matter? Self-concept and self-esteem in everyday life.

WB Swann Jr, C Chang-Schneider… - American …, 2007 - psycnet.apa.org
Recent scholars have dismissed the utility of self-esteem as well as programs designed to
improve it. The authors challenge these contentions on conceptual, methodological, and …

Capitalizing on diversity: Interpersonal congruence in small work groups

JT Polzer, LP Milton… - Administrative Science …, 2002 - journals.sagepub.com
We examine interpersonal congruence, the degree to which group members see others in
the group as others see themselves, as a moderator of the relationship between diversity …

12 identity: Personal and social

VL Vignoles, K Deaux, M Snyder - The Oxford handbook of …, 2018 - books.google.com
Identity refers to how people answer the question," Who are you?" This question may be
posed and answered explicitly or implicitly, at a personal or a collective level, to others or to …

The “shaken self”: Product choices as a means of restoring self-view confidence

L Gao, SC Wheeler, B Shiv - Journal of consumer research, 2009 - academic.oup.com
The present research shows that when a confidently held self-view (eg,“I am an exciting
person”) is temporarily cast in doubt, individuals are motivated to choose products that …